Attention, sickness, rejection and the end result

Why does soul get so desperate for attention that it makes our physical body so sick? Why attention is more important than our Love and responsibilities towards our family?

I can think of only two reasons for the dis-ease. We do not like our present circumstances and are desperately seeking change. Since the circumstances are outside our control, we reject certain parts of our life either by denying or not accepting a person or a situation.

We need to realise that the thing we influence the most when we reject something is our body. Any negative / unhappy thought makes our body sick. Lifetime after lifetime we reincarnate to take revenge and it goes on and on but never gets even.

The only thing is to accept the Hukum - the divine order. By doing so we immediately shed Ego which tells us to Reject something or someone. This takes away the unhappy thought that is the cause of sickness. Therefore, be careful of what you think and reject. As they say, don't throw away the baby with the bathtub. You took birth to DO certain things. Don't be that child that says,"if you don't give me a chance when it's not my turn, I won't play the game with you." If you have this attitude, then it's you who is spoiling the game by being unfair to other players. Don't tell that you are the victim. You just don't understand the rules. Therefore, your belief that you are the victim, is misleading.

By believing that God is never unfair and Natural justice prevails; you are helping yourself get out of the Thought pattern that is making you sick. Do some Soul searching and ask some difficult questions to yourself. Why am I attracting attention and grief at this time? What is it that I am unhappy with and why? Is this situation making me sick? How can I amicably resolve it without trying to get out of it?

At this point, you will realise that the only answer is a win-win solution for both parties. To achieve that, you need to think of the situation from another point of view. What does the other want? Therefore, you realise the need of the other. Fulfilling others needs is an act of Love and compassion. If you get to stay in this body at this time, is it really too high price to pay to let go of a little bit of ego and accept the other person or situation? Unless you feel that your purpose in this lifetime is fulfilled, don't quit; simply Accept. In return you earn yourself another chance of life. Is that such a bad bargain after all? Can any cost be too high to pay for a chance to live?

Visualise happy thoughts and situations. See yourself being healthy and enjoying the things you wish to enjoy in this life at this time. Little things in life that you enjoy. Smile as if you have just received what you always wanted. Be grateful for what you have. Thank God / Universe for all that has been provided. You don't DESERVE anything. A spoilt child always feels that his parents should do more for him / provide better services. A loving child simply loves his parents for whatever they can provide for him. Most of all, the loving child cherishes the company of his parents. Feel the Presence of God within and around you. Simply show GRATITUDE for what has been given to you. Talk to that little voice within you and receive wisdom and understanding so you understand the natural justice. Thank God for this lifetime as a human being and all the relationships and comforts you were provided. Thank for the beautiful Sunrise, the moonlight, the stars and the wide sky. Thank for the air you are breathing. There are endless reasons to thank and feel gratitude.